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This blog will give tips every week on how to pick up and date East European girls.

By John Stevens, Feb 20 2017 11:14AM

What are 3 questions you can ask a girl on a date to see if she's relationship material?

Next time you're on a first date, ask her these 3 questions:


1. "Do you like horror movies?"

2. "Have you ever traveled around another country alone?"

3. "Wouldn’t it be fun to chuck it all and go live on a sailboat?"


According to a recent study of nearly 35,000 couples, a third of them agreed on all three questions, which is 3.7 times the rate of simple coincidence.


All three questions seem to deal with how a person handles stress and anxiety, and their tendency to plan things out. So with that, you could say that two people who deal with stress similarly might make a good couple.

By John Stevens, Feb 13 2017 10:24AM

What can you say as an opening line when you meet a girl at a private party?


1) 'Hmmm, I'm not quite sure what that dish is. Do you know?'

2) 'Hey, aren't you friends with ...?'

3) 'I'll be honest, the only person I know here is the bartender, and I just met him two minutes ago. Mind if I introduce myself?' – Use humour!

4) 'Great shoes!' - If you genuinely like something someone is wearing, compliment them. You can also ask a follow-up question about where they got the item.

5) 'What did you think of this ...?' - Conversations flow around common experiences, so bring up the one thing you know you both have in common: What's going on around you. Asking about the party, the group discussion, or even the restaurants around the area will give you both a chance to contribute to the conversation.

By John Stevens, Feb 6 2017 01:25PM

What are the scientific ways you can look more attractive to a girl?


Here are 11 scientific ways to appear more attractive to a girl:


1) Be funny. Women like men who make them laugh.

2) Surround yourself with friends. People look better when they’re in a group.

3) Skip the small talk. Ask deeper questions to feel more connected with someone.

4) Be a leader. People find their leaders more attractive.

5) Smile more. The bigger the smile, the more attractive a face looks.

6) Own a dog. Women see dog owners as more suitable long-term partners.

7) Be nice. When people hear about how nice someone is, they find the person’s face more attractive.

8) Live in a high-status place. Men are rated as more attractive if they live in a luxury apartment.

9) Play good music. Women find players of complex music more attractive than those playing simple music.

10) Cultivate mindfulness. Women are more attracted to mindful men.

11) Play extreme sports. Women are attracted to men who take "hunter-gatherer risks” (like mountain biking, deep-sea scuba diving, and extreme rollerblading).

By John Stevens, Oct 3 2016 12:46PM

What questions should you ask a girl on a date?


Are you stuck for conversation on a date with a girl? Here is a list of 36 questions, broken up into 3 sets, with each set more intimate than the previous one. Asking these questions can help a girl fall in love with you.


Set 1


1. Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?


2. Would you like to be famous? In what way?


3. Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?


4. What would constitute a "perfect" day for you?


5. When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?


6. If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?


7. Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?


8. Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.


9. For what in your life do you feel most grateful?


10. If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?


11. Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.


12. If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?


Set 2


13. If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?


14. Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?


15. What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?


16. What do you value most in a friendship?


17. What is your most treasured memory?


18. What is your most terrible memory?


19. If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?


20. What does friendship mean to you?


21. What roles do love and affection play in your life?


22. Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.


23. How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?


24. How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?


Set 3


25. Make three true "we" statements each. For instance, "We are both in this room feeling _______."


26. Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share _______.”


27. If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.


28. Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.


29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.


30. When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?


31. Tell your partner something that you like about them already.


32. What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?


33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?


34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?


35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?


36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.



By John Stevens, Sep 6 2016 12:19PM

According to new studies, there are 4 main reasons why women cheat on their partners:


1. Sexual infrequency. Non-cheaters have sex 10 times per month, while cheaters only had sex 5 times per month.


2. Lack of communication. Non-cheaters talk to their partners 30-60 minutes per day, while cheaters talked to their partners less than 5 minutes per day.


3. Unhappiness in relationship. 66% of cheaters are unhappy in their relationship.


4. Success at work. Women who earn $75,000 a year are 1.5 times more likely to cheat.

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